Heidi is living in a fantasy world where she doesn’t think that she is responsible for her finance’s actions. As long as she chooses to be with him it’s always going to be a problem. Her standing by him is as if she condones everything that he does that is bad. If they wind up getting married you can bet it won’t last. Hopefully they won’t have any children together. Hopefully we won’t have to go there and she will end things with Spencer sooner rather than later.

I think you did the right thing telling her that you would like to forgive and then forget her. A person can only put up with so much negativity and you have tolerated A LOT of negativity from Heidi’s end, that is for sure. I once made the decision to give up somebody that I thought was a “friend” and it was the best decision I ever made. There are absolutely too many good people out there to waste time putting up with the bad ones.

Good for you Lauren for having the guts to stand up to these brainless peons!